Sometimes I laugh when people start talking about things like their romantic prefer language.
I mean, don’t my friend and I all like to have a fairly even mix of gift-giving, physical attention, and quality time together? It seems deranged to me that these conversations need to be had between partners.
If you are not constantly spending time together or telling each other nice things, I don’t know you are in a relationship at all. Anyways, I happen to know that there could be far more particular prefer language quizzes to reflect real-world personalities! Personally, I believe that my number one prefer language would be utility management and heating, cooling, and air quality control. I know, this doesn’t sound identifiably romantic. However, my heating, cooling, and air handling system is one of the most important aspects of my life! Since I spend so much time indoors I am quite reliant on my central HVAC system. Not a morning goes by that I don’t adjust my thermostat about a million times to keep myself comfortable. I know that it is certainly lavish when it comes to my energy costs and my HVAC wear and tear. That being said, I entirely value somebody who knows a thing or two about a/c units and forced air furnaces. If you can change out my air filter, wipe my air ducts, and help arrange my professional HVAC appointments I am going to be head over heels. I don’t know it’s that big of a stretch to consider the way that indoor comfort affects feelings of love. Somehow, I have never seen a prefer language quiz that includes HVAC systems.